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The Introduction.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Introducing yourself<\/em>&nbsp;is the most&nbsp;<strong>obvious step in getting to know anyone<\/strong>, but you may be surprised that most people do it very wrong.&nbsp;<strong>An example<\/strong>&nbsp;of a&nbsp;<strong>bad introduction<\/strong>&nbsp;I often see in the chat rooms is&nbsp;<em>&#8220;Hey PM now&#8221;<\/em>. Think of it like real life, would you go to a random stranger and say lets PM, or would you just look insane. Probably insane since there&#8217;s no private message windows in real life :D.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A different approach would be&nbsp;<em>&#8220;He guys, my names Banana nice to meet you all.&#8221;<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Step 2. Joining the Conversation.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Start discussion topics about anything from Trump, Aliens attacking, to any quirky event from your personal life? Trying to properly&nbsp;<strong>include yourself<\/strong>&nbsp;in the conversation can&nbsp;<strong>catch the attention<\/strong>&nbsp;of that special someone.&nbsp;<strong>Don&#8217;t just agree<\/strong>&nbsp;with that person&#8217;s views, try to discuss the topic and add your own views on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Example:&nbsp;<em>&#8220;Donald Trump is controlled by the illuminati, everything that he&#8217;s done has been to make cows take over the world.&#8221;<\/em>. An example of what not to do is&nbsp;<em>&#8220;Spammmmm spam Mr.. Spam hi spam Bonjour la Spammmmmmmmmmmmmmm&#8221;<\/em>. Likely a moderator will warn you instead and trust me you don&#8217;t want that attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Step 3. Connecting Personally.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>This is where it really&nbsp;<strong>depends on you<\/strong>. Are you playful, evil, or are you just trying to make friends?.&nbsp;<strong>Try to get your personality out there and avoid being generic.<\/strong>&nbsp;Don&#8217;t follow in the failed footprints of&nbsp;<em>&#8220;Hey request picture&#8230; Here&#8217;s my BANANA&#8221;<\/em>&nbsp;(Not actually a banana this time). Bring your own personality to the conversation, that special thing that makes you and if that person likes it you may just meet someone special or make a lifelong friend. 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